Wow, 6 years, that is impressive! I'm totally spacking out after only 2 and a half years! Do you ever feel like that? I kinda feel like I'm too young to be settling down right now but then on the other hand I don't want to break off a good thing just because of something daft like that! I think maybe I was a commitment-phobe in a previous life...

Madrid though *drools*, tres jealous!

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Don't worry hun, I know what you mean. I met my boy at 17 and never expected to settle down, infact I didn't even want a boyfriend at the time. The about 2/3 years in we had a bit of a 'blip' shall we say but having survived me going to uni, being apart for a year and various other obstacles we pulled it back and things have been amazing ever since. I think once you get past the initial honeymoon stage it can be a bit scary but o the other hand i've realized that, for me, there simply isn't a better man out there than my bloke. He's absolutely amazing ad I'd rather have fun with him and still be out doing things young people do than be single, get to 30 and panic-marry a guy who isn't half as brilliant :)

By the way, did you ever get a package from me?

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Ooo, no I didn't, which address did you send it to? My mail tends to get split between my uni address in Aberdeen and my home address in St Albans so it might be at home? How intriguing though, I don't remember buying anything off you?!

That's totally it I think, we're getting to that 'getting serious' stage where we're talking about moving in together when we graduate and half my friends are getting engaged and sometimes it's all just a bit...oppressing is a bit strong but I just feel like...I think the only way to describe it is, have you seen The Last Kiss? The Zach Braff film? Basically he's this 30 year old guy living with his gorgeous girlfriend who's about to have his baby and all's well in his world but he's kind of like...is this it? Not that it's not wonderful and he's not happy but the way he describes it is that it's like his life is all planned out for him now and there's no more suprises. Sometimes that's kind of how I feel. But then there's no point ruining probably the best relationship I'll ever have because I want suprises!

Man, this is all very deep for LJ! xx

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Yeah I sent something to your Uni address so maybe next time have a check at your royal mail depot incase they didnt leave a card. Hope it hasn't got lost :(

Yeah I know what you mean- very deep for LJ indeed. Still, nothing wrong by playing things by ear. The more you think about the fact of your life being set out for you, the more it becomes set out really. I've had the craziest nights out with my boyfriend- its so cheesy but he truly is my best friend which is why we work so well. We don't take life, or each other, too seriously!

I think its important to feel that you want to be with your other half for the future but also accept that life is uncertain and in years to come that may change. I dunno, me and my man live together anyway so i guess its different.

C'est la vie!

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It's nice to know that someone else feels like this though, I feel like everyone I know is moving in together or getting engaged or something equally committed! I mean, I want to live with Dyce after the summer but I can't honestly say right now that it's definately going to happen, so much might change before then. I hate people who are all like, "if you're meant to be with someone then you jusy *know*" How??? How do you know??? You don't!!! That's just some cheesy line you pulled from a Hollywood film (most probably starring Ben Affleck) to make the rest of us feel bad that we don't 'just know'. I want to smack people when they say things like that *seethes*

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I hope you don't mind that I added you!

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Of course I do- fuck off out of my journal!

lol just kidding. I'll add you back but be warned I rarely update although I intend to do so more regularly this year :)

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lulz, you made a funnys.

I don't update either really - and when I do, it's total wank.

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Ah well, we can be losers together :) Ive added you back

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Can I add you too? This totally looks like jumping on the bandwagon! But I always think you sound funny on thriftstore :-) As in haha funny, not weird funny...

You don't want to add me now do you?!

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Hehe this made me chuckle. Its like you guys are on a akward first date :-P

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Fuck no.

:p

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Hey girls, im doing a mahoosive make up sale toight with stuff from 10p so take a look if you love me or if you dont love me just look anyway dammit lol

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I'll look if it's cheap as chips :p

And if there's a nice blue eyeshadow...

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there are many blue eyeshadows! you wont be disappointed!

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I will most certainly look and drool over all the things that I can't afford because I spent all my pennies on fabric yesterday. Damn the woman and her pretty fabric! Must learn to wear make up this year though, my 1 mascara (circa 1994) and 2 eye shadow make-up bag are looking a bit sad :-(

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